monks (irishmonkey_jr) wrote in virginized,

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I'm also glad to have found the page. I'm 23 and a virgin. Everyone around me isn't a virgin, all of my relationships have been with non-virgins, and it's gotten to a rocky period where I'm starting to feel unsure in my choices. Now I should note that I do not practice the strictest forms of abstinence, I have done some things besides intercourse (I haven't done anal or anything like that) and I do not abstain as a result of any christian ideology. Nor do I believe I should abstain until marriage, I will abstain until I meet the person I feel comfortable with and love.

Recently I feel in love with a girl who has been a close friend of mine for a few years and she was actually the first person I really opened up with about me being a virgin and my reasons for doing so. Some part of me believes that she disagreed with my beliefs (I already know we have different views on committment, marriage and children) and I shouldn't be caring for her because of that. But I guess you can't always choose who you fall in love with. Because if you could I would've chosen the any number of girls that have been interested in me over the years and not the one that never had any intention of being with me.

Anyways that's my story in a nut shell.
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